When two people fall in love, the next level is usually to get engage. It is a sign of commitment, at least in the beginning for some people. When the love is so deep you’d like to spend the rest of your life together or in some cases, at least try to. The thought of leaving apart is unbearable.
The Vein of Love
Who started the tradition of wearing engagement rings? The Romans of course. The way they wore the ring is often on the left hand on the third finger which they believe to have a vein that leads to the heart hence it is called vena amoris (vein of love).
Go To The Right Store, You Get The Right Ring
Of course we understand that everyone has their own traditions and beliefs when it comes to the symbolism of the engagement ring. However, they forget that engagement rings are also investments which should be given lots of thoughts before purchasing. The problem arises because they are so engrossed in the air of “amore” .
Most of the time a guy, or a couple will just go into any popular engagement ring stores without knowing that choosing the right ring does not only entail the prettiest design. There are a lot of things to consider before going into an engagement ring stores and you as the guy should be prepared.
The Importance of Budget
Knowing you have a set of budget before going into any engagement ring stores will be the wisest decision, this goes both to either you are shopping alone or with you fiance. Sales people are sometimes can be sleazy. They will make you believe that the cost of the ring shows your fiancee the amount of your love. Don’t be fooled easily because you know how much you can afford.
Do Your Research
Always do your homework before hand, now you may think this is easy, but it’s not that simple at all, but don’t lose heart just yet. Be prepared because when you go into any engagement ring stores, you will be barraged with a lot of precious metals as your ring’s setting. There are too many to choose from: You can either choose gold, titanium, rose gold, platinum, and white gold or a combination of precious metals. So take your time, at the end of the day the design that you choose must suits your beloved’s taste. Is it raditional, understated, modern, or intricate?
Choose The Deal Breaker
Everyone knows that the deal breaker is always the stone. The most popular choice is of course the Diamond; after all it is a girl’s best friend. Unfortunately, fake diamonds are existing in the market so you have to be careful. When going into an engagement ring stores, be armed with the knowledge that when you pick a diamond you have to know the “Four C’s” Carat weight, Clarity, Cut, and Color.
Engagement ring stores will always offer you diamonds that have already been preset. Sometimes if not always you can examine closely a diamond better when it has not been set yet, so if possible choose a setting and a diamond separately.
Surprising your girlfriend is romantic, but don’t forget to take take a friend and make sure the two of you have read up on the fine points of choosing the right diamond. Of course it’s better to have second opinion. I will suggest going to a good and reputable engagement ring stores though they can be a little pricey, you may be assured of the quality. However, don’t forget to ask for ask for a certification on the originality of the ring.